Arrive at 6:30. Food first — always food. You settle in by 7. Your mentor opens with the week's question. No one goes first by force.
Conversation builds. Someone says the real thing and the room shifts. You can feel it when it happens — the moment someone stops performing and starts telling the truth. Wrap by 8:30.
It's a room full of men being honest with each other. That's it. That's the whole thing. And it turns out that's enough.
You'll be nervous. That's normal. Every man in that room felt the same thing his first Tuesday.
Nobody will ask you to share your life story. Just listen. Eat. Let the conversation wash over you. Come back next week. The men who go deepest almost always started quiet.
“I almost didn't walk in. I sat in the parking lot for ten minutes. Now Tuesday is the night I look forward to all week.”
The next cohort is forming. No experience required — just willingness to show up.
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